INTIMACY. POWER. UNION.

A Transformative Retreat for Discerning Couples - by Invitation Only

In the quietude of Somerset's rolling hills lies an invitation to rediscover what drew you together - the profound art of truly understanding one another.

Taking place between 20th-22nd of February 2026 , this exclusive retreat transcends conventional relationship programmes, offering something far more sophisticated: an immersion in communication mastery designed exclusively for executive couples who demand excellence in every aspect of their lives.

When words fail and connection feels distant despite your shared success, when boardroom prowess doesn't translate to bedroom intimacy, it's time to awaken the language of your love. This isn't therapy - it's transformation.

The Sanctuary: The Newt in Somerset

Nestled within 628 acres of breathtaking English countryside, The Newt in Somerset provides the perfect backdrop for intimate transformation. This isn't merely a venue - it's a carefully curated environment where luxury meets purpose, where historic elegance creates space for modern connection.

Here, amidst award-winning gardens and centuries-old architecture, couples find themselves removed from the relentless demands of executive life. The estate's thoughtful design encourages natural conversation, spontaneous moments of connection, and the kind of unhurried intimacy that executive schedules rarely accommodate.

Every corner whispers stories of enduring love, inspiring couples to write their own next chapter.

The Foundation: Life Languages™ Mastery

At the heart of this transformative experience lies the scientifically-backed Life Languages Communication methodology - a sophisticated framework that reveals the unique ways each individual processes and expresses love, appreciation, and connection.

Discovery

Uncover your personal communication blueprint through expert-guided assessment

Understanding

Learn to recognise and honour your partner's unique communication style

Integration

Master practical tools for daily connection that transcend typical relationship advice

This isn't about learning to communicate better - it's about learning to communicate in each other's native language, creating the kind of understanding that transforms good relationships into extraordinary partnerships.

The Philosophers Feast: An Evening of Profound Connection

A table set not only with exquisite food, but with stories.
This is not just fine dining - it is a ritual.

Each couple is invited to bring one object, one artifact, that reflects their marriage so far. Between courses, those objects become gateways: to memories, to celebrations, perhaps regrets that have remained unspoken.

Here, over candlelight and wine, leaders and lovers become storytellers. Journeymen and women who have conquered much in life, yet dare to speak of what has been gained, and what has been lost or forgotten..

The Philosophers’ Feast is not performance. It is vulnerability.
It is laughter, honesty, confession - a communion of lives shared.

A sumptuous beginning to a weekend of intimacy, courage, and connection.

Masterful Workshops: Learning Through Luxury.

Our meticulously designed workshops delve deep into the art and science of communication, moving beyond theory into practical application. Each session is an engaging, interactive experience — crafted to respect the sophistication of our attendees whilst delivering profound insights.

Day One: Communication Mastery

The immersive 5-hour workshop provides an unparalleled exploration of the Life Languages framework. You will:

  • Unpack the 7 distinct communication styles that shape every interaction.

  • Understand how these styles are grouped into 3 core categories, offering profound insights into your own and your partner's communication blueprint.

  • Learn the art of authentic expression and deep, appreciative listening.

Day Two: Conflict Resolution & Connection

Building on the foundations of Day One, the second day focuses on navigating challenges and deepening intimacy. You will:

  • Explore conflict resolution through the powerful lens of Life Languages distress flares.

  • Identify and defuse communication patterns that lead to misunderstanding.

  • Transform moments of tension into opportunities for profound connection and growth.

Private Consultations: Your Personal Transformation

Some revelations require privacy. Our expert-led one-to-one sessions provide the intimate space necessary for deeper exploration of your unique relationship dynamics. Not therapy. Strategy. Designed for couples navigating the complexities of success and intimacy. they're strategic consultations with a communication specialist who understands the complexities of high-achieving partnerships.

During these 60-minute private sessions, couples work directly with their certified Life Languages™ guide to address specific communication challenges, uncover hidden strengths, and develop personalised strategies for long-term connection.

What We Will Dismantle: Removing the Masks

In this transformative retreat, we don't just build; we deconstruct. We identify and dismantle the ingrained patterns, silent assumptions, and subtle behaviours that have inadvertently eroded intimacy and stifled genuine connection in even the most high-achieving partnerships. It's time to shed the masks that have served as protection but have ultimately kept you from profound understanding.

The Achievement Illusion

We'll confront the pervasive lie that career success can adequately substitute for deep, meaningful intimacy. Recognition in the boardroom, whilst valuable, cannot mend the silences or bridge the emotional distances that grow in the bedroom. This retreat challenges you to invest in the wealth of your relationship with the same vigour you apply to your professional life.

The Language Barrier

You'll learn to identify and break down the unseen wall of missed signals, unspoken assumptions, and subtle distress behaviours that can transform love into a series of logistical negotiations. We delve into the root causes of miscommunication, replacing guesswork and frustration with clarity, empathy, and effective expression.

The Safety Trap

This session exposes the insidious pattern of choosing superficial peace over uncomfortable truth. Avoiding conflict might seem like the path of least resistance, but it often leads to a gradual smothering of passion, authenticity, and vital connection. We will equip you with the tools to navigate tension constructively, fostering growth rather than resentment.

What We Will Restore: The Sacred Renewal

Having shed the layers that obscured your genuine connection, this phase of the retreat is dedicated to cultivating a profound and enduring bond. We guide you back to the essence of your partnership, revealing the sacred space where true understanding and unconditional love reside. This is where the work of dismantling gives way to the art of building, strengthening the foundations of a relationship designed to thrive.

Authentic Connection

You will rediscover the profound power of truly being known, deeply valued, and genuinely heard by your partner. We will equip you with a language of intimacy that transcends mere words, fostering a connection that resonates on every level.

Union with Depth

Transition from a relationship of performance and expectation to one of authentic presence and communion. Your marriage will become a vibrant space where forgiveness blossoms and unwavering commitment breathes new life into every interaction.

Intimate Renewal

Experience the exhilarating rediscovery of desire, the bedrock of trust, and the pure joy that first drew you together. You will gain the freedom to love fiercely and openly, shedding all armour and embracing true vulnerability.

This journey of restoration is not merely about recapturing what was lost, but about forging a deeper, more resilient union than you've ever known. It is an invitation to write the next chapter of your love story with intention, passion, and unparalleled clarity.

Your Transformation Awaits

Some experiences cannot be replicated. Some transformations cannot be postponed. For discerning couples who understand that exceptional relationships require exceptional investment, this retreat offers something truly unique: the opportunity to rediscover each other whilst being rediscovered yourselves.

"The quality of your communication determines the quality of your life…..and your love."

Spaces are intentionally limited to ensure the intimate, exclusive atmosphere that facilitates genuine transformation. Only a maximum of 5 couples per retreat session will be accepted, creating a community of like-minded individuals committed to communication excellence.

The next chapter of your love story begins with a single decision. Will you continue navigating your relationship with the same communication patterns, or will you invest in mastering the art of truly understanding each other?

Not every couple is ready.

This retreat is not for those who seek entertainment.

It is for those willing to risk vulnerability,
to let the armour fall,
and to choose to be known,
to be valued,
to be seen.
If you choose intimacy over achievement, apply HERE:

The Cost of Entry:

£20,000 per couple


All feasting, guidance, and accommodation included.

50% deposit on acceptance.
Balance due 31 December 2025.
Payment by bank transfer only.

Your sanctuary of transformation awaits, at The Newt in Somerset.

The Afterglow

Transformation does not end when the retreat concludes. It deepens.

The Afterglow is a three-month, bi-weekly coaching container that ensures your breakthroughs become lasting change. Guided sessions provide structure, accountability, and space to integrate what you discovered at the retreat into the rhythm of daily life.

From communication tools to renewed intimacy, the Afterglow moves you from insight to embodiment — ensuring your relationship continues to grow long after the retreat ends.

James Porter is your architect and co-creator…

…..a guide for leaders who have conquered the boardroom yet struggle to find intimacy at home. With over 25 years of experience in coaching, mentoring, and leadership across three continents, he brings wisdom forged through both triumph and trial. A husband of thirty years and father of three, James knows both the weight of responsibility and the cost of disconnection.

Drawing on the Life Languages™ Communication IQ System and other transformative frameworks, he creates spaces where couples rediscover what it means to be known, seen, and desired. His work is not therapy, it is awakening. Awakening love, presence, and union.